Trust & Safety

Hey Famm exists because we needed a space built by and for queer folx in work and business, where safety is prioritized.

When you join Hey Famm, you agree to our Code of Conduct, Terms of Service, and Privacy Policy. Those agreements set the tone for how we show up for each other. Trust and safety is how we protect that tone, day in and day out, so this can keep being the kind of community we all needed.

Last updated: May 2026

What we look out for

Hey Famm isn't the right fit for everyone, and that's okay. Behaviors that run counter to the spirit of the community may result in removal at our discretion. These include:

  • Spammy behavior. Bulk messaging, mass connection requests, link drops, duplicate posts, or activity that feels more like manipulation than participation.

  • Flirting or romantic solicitation. Hey Famm is a professional networking platform. There are wonderful queer dating apps out there. This isn't one of them.

  • Accounts that don't appear to be real or accurately represented. Stolen identities, stock photos, AI-generated profiles, copied bios, or businesses that don't appear to be what they claim.

  • Harassment, bullying, or hate. We hold a firm line against racism, transphobia, homophobia, antisemitism, ableism, fatphobia, and any form of targeted harm. Even from inside our community.

  • Misrepresenting yourself, your business, or your affiliations.

  • Pushing connections off-platform too soon. Asking for phone numbers, moving conversations off the app early, or requesting personal, private, or financial information before trust is built.

  • Anything else that runs counter to our Code of Conduct and our Terms of Service.


How we find issues

A couple of ways:

  • Member reports. You can report any profile, post, or message directly in the app or email us at support@heyfamm.com. Reports come to our team, and we review them as they come in.

  • Proactive audits. Our team regularly looks across the community for patterns that don't align with our values. We'd rather catch something early than wait for someone to be harmed.


How we make decisions

When something gets flagged, a real person on our team takes a look. We consider the full picture: what was reported, what the behavior looks like over time, what context might be missing, and what feels right for the community.

We lean toward protecting the people who are here in good faith. If something raises real concern, we'd rather act than let it sit.

Decisions about access to Hey Famm are made at our discretion, as outlined in our Terms of Service.


When someone's removed

If we remove your account, we'll email you to let you know. We won't go into the specifics, both to protect the privacy of anyone who may have shared a concern and because these reviews often involve patterns and context that aren't quick to summarize.

We don't publicly share the details of individual removals, either. Doing so would put reporters at risk and turn private safety decisions into public debates. We stand by the calls we make.


How to flag something

f something feels off, please tell us:

  • Use the in-app report function on the profile, post, or message

  • Email support@heyfamm.com with what you noticed

You don't need to be sure. You don't need proof. A gut feeling is enough for us to look into it.


What we ask of you

Trust and safety are a shared responsibility. The community is safer when:

  • You report instead of staying quiet

  • You treat each other like a community, not leads

  • You assume good faith first, but trust your gut when something's off

We built this for us. Let's keep it safe!